The “Should” Factor

The Tower card represents a structure that, under pressure, will crumble. And essentially, this is what happens internally when you only focus on what you “should” do rather that what you want. Feeling pressured to do something isn’t out of the ordinary for any of us. There are constant environmental pressures that we cannot escape.…

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Being Maternal Without Wanting Children

Throughout my life, I have been very vocal about my not wanting children. I used to say things like “I’m too selfish to have a baby,” or “I hate children.” Neither of those things are (entirely) true, and I don’t need an excuse. I just don’t see my life including a child. However, I innately…

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