Eliminating Shame from Sexuality

When there is shame surrounding a topic, it takes something that should be beautiful and makes it seedy. It strips away all of the magic. It creates a dark air around it. And this is just as true for sex as any other taboo subject. So, what can we do to eliminate the shame surrounding…

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Great Sexpectations (and the Shame Game)

When we’re talking about something as taboo as sex, we (as a society) tend to get a little uncomfortable. When we include shame in the dialogue, things get thrust into the shadows and we can’t celebrate our kinks. And what fun is that?? As a major proponent for open communication, I think it is equally…

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WednesdayWisdoms: Break Out of the Breakup

Breaking up is hard to do, but with these simple tactics, you can get through it so much easier. Earlier this week I talked about why letting go of heartbreak is so hard, and today I have some tips to ease the pain, including a special invite to my Masterclass starting next Tuesday. CRYING: This…

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WednesdayWisdoms: Sex Magick

Brought to you by popular demand: your very own, beginners, sex magic ritual! Ok, so first things first, if you are looking to be more sexy, have better sex, or have a lot of sex, this is not where you need to be. Sex magick is a form of manifestation. Sex and orgasms are energy, and…

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Why Your Sexual Fruit is Sacred, but There’s No Shame in Sharing Some of the Juice 

My relationship with sex has been a complicated one. It must have started out with the pressure of losing my virginity, because I slept with a boyfriend of four days “just to get it over with.” This kind of set the pace for devaluing my body, and I didn’t even know the power and sacredness…

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