Triggers

To kind of piggy-back on the 3-parter I just finished, I want to step in and discuss triggers. Throughout my exercise in clarity and empowering myself to make the right decision in my everyday dealings, I started to notice all of the triggers that got me to the fork in the road in the first place.…

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How Do I Get to Where I Want to Be?

The World signifies wholeness; a complete circle. And that’s what we are all shooting for, right? To feel complete? Well, after seeking out some less than desirable traits I possess and the woman I would like to become, we have finally come to the last segment of this three part exercise. Hopefully, if you got…

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What is Holding Me Back?

Hello witchy readers! Welcome to a three part series that is basically an open book worksheet in self- awareness. In this three-parter I’m going to sift through and discover some traits that I possess that are holding me back, traits that I admire, and how to move into my ultimate awesome self by employing some self help…

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Vanity’s Power

Often described as a “shrinking violet,” the reversed Queen of Wands conveys the lack of confidence I think all women feel at some point in their life. With the age of selfies and social media upon us, expensive makeup and contouring, and ,of course, photo-shop, it becomes reasonable to have a compare-complex. When vanity steps…

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Rationing Your Time

Good afternoon witches! As some of you may have noticed, my blog posts have becoming more infrequent. While I used to try and post as often as possible, the time has come for me to spread out my writings in order to preserve the quality of my content. Which brings me to the Ten of…

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Tackling Obsession

Uh oh. Here’s that scary Devil card again. However, today, we’re going to use it to illustrate obsession. This card is not “bad” by any measure, but it is truly enlightening. It is the perfect metaphor for obsession. Being bound by mental chains of fixation on one thing or another is quite debilitating. When we…

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Why Pity Parties Don’t Work

In the Five of Cups, we see a man cloaked in despair. He is focusing on three spilled cups in front of him, and is unaware of the two cups,still full, behind him. And that is Lame Ass, amiright? Pity parties can be fun for a hot second, like when you really just need to be…

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Why Couple Tarot and Self Help?

The Page of Cups symbolizes the realization of a new part of yourself; the start of your journey in listening to your intuition. And isn’t that what the journey of self help is in a nut shell? I’ve recently gotten many questions about this. What does tarot have to do with psychology and personal development?…

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What Does Taking Care of Yourself ACTUALLY Mean?

When we go through hard times, people like to reach out in comfort and say “Just take care of yourself.” People throw around this phrase often, but when you are lost, hurt, and seemingly alone, it’s hard to understand what that actually means. After my infamous breakup, I found out that I had lost myself so…

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Giving Acknowledgement and Love to Your Inner Critic

We’ve visited this card before. Strength. The woman, strong and compassionate, tames the lion in her lap with her peaceful energy. This is how I want you to look at your relationship with your inner critic. You are the goddess atop the beast. The lion is your inner critic; the manifestation of your fears. You can tame…

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