Great Sexpectations (and the Shame Game)

When we’re talking about something as taboo as sex, we (as a society) tend to get a little uncomfortable. When we include shame in the dialogue, things get thrust into the shadows and we can’t celebrate our kinks. And what fun is that?? As a major proponent for open communication, I think it is equally…

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When Not Engaging is the Best Self Defense

When someone is acting childish, hurling insults, and just plain not seeing your side of the story, it’s easy to get frustrated and argue in order to “win.” But what are you actually gaining from this behavior? Is it really worth it to throw some insults back at them? Because that almost always ends in…

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