WednesdayWisdoms: Break Out of the Breakup

Breaking up is hard to do, but with these simple tactics, you can get through it so much easier. Earlier this week I talked about why letting go of heartbreak is so hard, and today I have some tips to ease the pain, including a special invite to my Masterclass starting next Tuesday. CRYING: This…

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Master Manipulator? Or Sad Girl?

Truth be told, I got the idea for this blog post by watching Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. And some of these women have supremely repressed issues that not only keep bubbling to the surface, but end up shaping their reality. And it got me thinking… are the people that we think are master manipulators, puppeteers,…

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When Compromise Becomes Compromising

There must be a theme of compromise in relationships; it is perfectly necessary when two people learn how to work together while being emotionally invested in each other. But what happens when there is only one person sacrificing? How can you measure who brings what to the table? First and foremost, I think I should…

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Codependency in a Vacuum

More than an article to provide advice, this blog post comes to you as sort of a realization piece, courtesy of my recent trip and a conversation with my sister. Hopefully this can additionally add insight to someones life who may need it, however, this is meant more to be an exercise in self exploration.…

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Why “Nurturing” is Not Synonymous with “Codependent”

Remember when I wrote about dichotomous thinking? Well this is a perfect example. Upright, the Empress is the pinnacle of femininity, mothering, abundance, and giving. Reversed she is codependent and blocked creatively. They are two sides of the same card, but that does not mean there isn’t  happy medium. When I started to heal from my…

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A Nugget on Codependency

As an upright Queen of Cups suggest emotional stability, a reversed suggests codependency. This topic is of utmost importance to me. When the love for yourself is contingent on how much you love others, you are codependent. When you can only love yourself because of the way you love others, by putting them first and…

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