Eliminating Shame from Sexuality

When there is shame surrounding a topic, it takes something that should be beautiful and makes it seedy. It strips away all of the magic. It creates a dark air around it. And this is just as true for sex as any other taboo subject. So, what can we do to eliminate the shame surrounding…

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Great Sexpectations (and the Shame Game)

When we’re talking about something as taboo as sex, we (as a society) tend to get a little uncomfortable. When we include shame in the dialogue, things get thrust into the shadows and we can’t celebrate our kinks. And what fun is that?? As a major proponent for open communication, I think it is equally…

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Balancing Your Shadow Self With Your Outward Self

Your true desires are often carried out by impulses, which don’t think of the big picture. Acting in this way lands you in hot water, and then scars you because you’re afraid to take another leap. So, what do we do to take careful steps around achieving what our shadow self wants the most for…

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Finding Harmony Between Instinct and Ego

Inner turmoil begins and ends with imbalance. When your intuition says one thing, but your impulses scream another, we find ourselves stuck in the crossfire, and quite often, take a bullet. This eclipse season has been a time for great reflection and transformation. But, it is a lot of energy to deal with if you…

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Using Rage Constructively

So, you’ve got fire in your eyes and rage in your belly. What now? Here’s what you can do to help: DONATE: You can donate to the victims of the Charlottesville attack via multiple GoFundMe pages. The victims of the car attack can be reached here, to donate to the man beaten by Nazi’s in…

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Why Rage is Essential

I want to make one thing abundantly clear to all of my coven RIGHT NOW: Rage is not just ok, it is essential. If any of you have this idea of me that I sit in my room with sage and crystals in perfect peace and harmony 24/7, you are wrong. I am human, with…

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WednesdayWisdoms: Eclipse Season Survival Guide

This eclipse season is INTENSE witches! With the full moon eclipse in Aquarius and the upcoming solar eclipse in Leo, we’re headed for an emotional and full throttle ride. Since I had no post on Monday, I’ve decided to just craft a mini-survival guide for the next couple weeks, in lieu of a self help…

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WednesdayWisdoms: How to Reach Out

It’s hard to reach out to friends or family when you feel guilt or shame surrounding your situation. Those kinds of self-inflicted emotions can hinder your ability to speak up and reach out for the help you need. So today I’m going to move, step by step, through how to pick up the phone: Notice…

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