WednesdayWisdoms: Standards, What?!

To continue this weeks theme of creating standards and boundaries in love in order to reinforce the positive beliefs in yourself, we’re going to do some writing exercises and watch some movies. First, pick three movies or tv shows in which you absolutely adore one of the characters romantically and make a profile for each…

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Sadness is the Anti-Pheromone

Brought to you by an epiphany during my latest vacation home, here is a break down of the power of sadness: Let me tell you, from pure experience, that sadness and desperation is a stench. It’s an obvious aura that is just plain freaking unattractive. Harsh, right? Well in simple terms, your inside dictates your…

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WednesdayWisdoms: Taking it Easy

For all my high achievers out there, I know it is hard to take some time to relax and enjoy yourselves. I know we can’t all go on expensive vacations around the world, but we can at least dedicate a few hours to ourselves out of our week to take it easy. This week, I…

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Taking Vacations

Hello witches! This week I am on V A C A T I O N ***** My little sister graduated so we went to watch her walk the stage in Northern California, have road-tripped down to Vegas (where I am currently) and will be heading back to my home town of little old Los Angeles…

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WednesdayWisdoms: Appreciating Your Body

The above photo is from a few months after my battle with bulimia. I wasn’t doing the work, I just stopped throwing up. And I still looked completely miserable. Regardless of how much work I have put in into loving myself over the years, I can still look at myself in the mirror and pick…

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Loving the Skin You’re In: A Twisted Journey

I imagine being totally in love with my body like a unicorn running through a Lisa Frank- style field of neon daisies. Beautiful, but unrealistic. Being an American woman, hailing from a city like Los Angeles and living in a city like New York, there will always be times when I feel like I am…

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WednesdayWisdoms: Releasing the Negative

When shitty things happen to you, and they will through the course of your life, you have two clear routes to take. As discussed in the previous post, you can turn to whiney victimhood, or to raw vulnerability that helps you move on in an organic way. But before you get to this fork in…

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Victimhood vs. Vulnerability

It is a very important distinction to make between an act that serves us versus an act that alienates us. One that I’d like to point out today is the difference between being vulnerable and being a victim. If you’re feeling beaten down, as with the Ten of Swords, there is a clear cut choice to make here.…

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