It Takes Two

Can you be in a healthy relationship with someone who is not fully healed? The Lovers reversed suggests an imbalance. Some disharmony between the two. But I don’t think it is impossible. Actually, I think the key here is willingness. When we enter into a relationship, we bring our own set of baggage, as our…

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WitchCrafts ( *)

Well, it’s the end of February and time for another dose of WitchCrafts! Today we’re going to make some incense holders from used materials. They’re really easy to make and very cute, so let’s put some flair into your spiritual practice! First you’ll start with these materials: Small bottle (I used an old bitters bottle from work,…

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Tales From My Bedroom Floor: Volume 1, The Fat Girl

  Volume 1 for my new project is now up on MyTrendingStories! In this six part series, I go through times that were pivotal in collecting my personal and detrimental belief system, all while crying on my bedroom floor. Go check it out here:  https://mytrendingstories.com/article/tales-from-my-bedroom-floor-volume-1-the-fat-girl/ Stay witchy ( *)

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The Green Eyed Monster

Jealousy is tricky. It will pop up when you least expect it, and proceed to torture and consume you. It becomes an obsession. It is pretty clear, however, that jealousy is just another by-product of insecurity. The “you aren’t good enough” track plays over and over in your head and so you compare yourself to everyone…

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Standing By Your Shit

  The Moon symbolizes fears and illusions within the subconscious. A lot of the times these fears will come up in interpersonal relationships, because if you critique yourself too harshly, more often than not you will project these illusions on other people. Judgement and shame will do that to a person. Living with shame is not the way…

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My Trending Stories

Hi Witches! I’m starting to switch gears a bit here. I’m looking to change up my posting schedule with the addition of my podcast and the new project I’m working on for My Trending Stories. As I have been regularly posting three times a week, on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays, and will continue to do…

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Trauma Resolution

  After rape, feeling safe isn’t easy to come by. And through some interesting research and my favorite podcast, an idea was brought to my attention. You feel unsafe for surface reasons that are obvious, but also a deeper biological reason that isn’t so: you haven’t finished your fight or flight response, and so discomfort…

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How to be Wrong with Grace

  Being wrong is just the worst, isn’t it? The Five of Wands signifies conflict that is far from constructive. Everyone is shouting and no one is listening, so nothing gets accomplished. All the feelings are valid, but everyone is too self absorbed and focused on being “right.” But what is the point of being…

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When Compromise Becomes Compromising

There must be a theme of compromise in relationships; it is perfectly necessary when two people learn how to work together while being emotionally invested in each other. But what happens when there is only one person sacrificing? How can you measure who brings what to the table? First and foremost, I think I should…

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Love and Heartbreak are Acts of Self Trust

  I’ve talked about these topics at length, as well as of my favorite book, Women Who Run With the Wolves. In this book, Clarissa Pinkola Estes talks about the cycle of love in a new, and yet, ancient way that speaks very clearly to me. In this book she dissects old fables and explains how…

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