New Moon New Me!

Not only is today the beginning of a New Moon, but it is also my birthday! A New Moon brings about rebirth and regeneration, and I feel that it is perfectly appropriate that it would appear tonight. I have always imagined the age 27 as the perfect adult age when I was a child, making all…

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Keeping Your Side of the Street Clean

Lately many of my friends and clients have been struggling with having hard conversations. These are never fun but they’re essential in relationships. And my advice is always the same: Keep your side of the street clean. What this means, essentially, is to be accountable for your actions and show up in a way you…

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Shock, Trauma, and the Awesome Feeling of Acceptance

Straight from the mouth of my favorite website, biddytarot.com, “The Ten of Swords reversed indicates a painful ending which must occur for there to be growth and regeneration.” As you can tell from the bulk of my content, this is a very relatable concept for me. However, even with growth and regeneration, there is some…

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WitchCrafts ( *)

Hello hello witchy readers!! Because I believe so much in getting creative and using that part of your tool belt to get you out of  rut, I’ve decided to do a monthly WitchCrafts segment! The Ace of Cups runneth over with creativity, and so will your heart when you get cracking on these projects!! In honor of…

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Why My Mother Means So Much to Me

In honor of my mothers birthday today, I’d like to explore the ups and downs of a mother-daughter relationship. Such a unique bond is special, and whether you weren’t, aren’t, were or are close with your mother, this is a story I think we can all appreciate. My mother and I have had quite a ride…

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Teaching Others How To Treat You (Personal Responsibility)

All too often we find ourselves being treated the same way by different people and we’re left scratching our heads as to why this keeps happening to us. Well, as the Justice card implies cause and effect and accountability, it shows us that we need to take responsibility for how we TEACH others to treat…

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Dichotomous Thinking

As Temperance upright denotes balance, reversed warns excess. Dichotomous thinking is usually described in psychology literature as”black and white thinking” and “thinking in extremes.” And while this is seen as a common symptom in many mental illnesses, it is a common symptom in just plain high achievers. If you are an ambitious person, or even…

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Why Do We Keep Getting in Our Own Way?

The Seven of Swords represents mental challenges; breaking old habits that have been built after reoccurring setbacks. This card shows the difficulty in embarking in a new direction, but the willingness to start a new chapter. When something comes up that seems too good to be true, we tend to overthink things, re-rationalize, and convince…

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Triggers

To kind of piggy-back on the 3-parter I just finished, I want to step in and discuss triggers. Throughout my exercise in clarity and empowering myself to make the right decision in my everyday dealings, I started to notice all of the triggers that got me to the fork in the road in the first place.…

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How Do I Get to Where I Want to Be?

The World signifies wholeness; a complete circle. And that’s what we are all shooting for, right? To feel complete? Well, after seeking out some less than desirable traits I possess and the woman I would like to become, we have finally come to the last segment of this three part exercise. Hopefully, if you got…

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