As an upright Queen of Cups suggest emotional stability, a reversed suggests codependency. This topic is of utmost importance to me.
When the love for yourself is contingent on how much you love others, you are codependent.
When you can only love yourself because of the way you love others, by putting them first and forgetting yourself, you are codependent.
Recognizing who number one is (YOU) is the first step in personal development. Without you, there is no personal. Other people are just external factors.
This type of behavior distracts you from you. By being so concerned and reliant on the external, your internal is ignored, and no real progress can begin.
That’s all for today. Remember number one and stay witchy ( *)